When we list all the qualities we seek in a relationship we must make sure we possess those qualities ourselves in order to attract them! Far too many people think they are ready but find themselves frozen by fear. Fear of giving love and not receiving any in return and also fear of commitment. If you truly are not ready you need to either stop hurting g yourself and others or make space in your heart before you even contemplate the idea of dating. The later can take some times; the former is a matter of honesty, integrity and karma.
For many of us, relationships are the most rewarding and sometimes the most challenging and painful of human experiences. We must stir away from our past and move on to the new by erasing old tapes and choose to be courageous enough to love ourselves and therefore reigniting the flame in someone else’s heart. One must engage in a quest for finding the right person who is independent, smart, and honest and who can be a great partner, someone we can co-create not only new endeavors but co-create fun and discover life in its fullest sense of the term. There is no such a thing as comfort zone in life. We must keep envisioning our future partner to be kind and loving towards all and be rational but at the same time remain the dreamer she or he might be. It is important to surround our self with good and positive people, to love to have fun, do yoga and meditate on the beach and when the going gets tough turn to our partner and use love as a source of rejuvenation. We can only live a second a time and breathe one breath at a time. I like to spend quality time with someone who does not drain me but fulfill my passion for life’s most beautiful gift
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